Stop trying to earn love by being "good."
Nice Guy patterns look noble, but they create resentment and kill attraction.
Approval isn't love.
It's a drug.
I'm a certified Nice Guy coach.I've helped guys just like you.
You Don't Have To Do This Alone. Let's Talk.
The Approval Addiction Recovery Loop
Spot the Bid for Approval
Where are you over-explaining, over-giving, or trying to earn safety and validation?
Cancel the Covert Contract
Break the hidden "If I'm good, you'll love me" deal. Say what you want and own your needs.
Build Displeasure Tolerance
Learn to stay grounded and calm when she's unhappy, disappointed, or angry. Learn how to handle discomfort.
Choose from Standards
Choose from wholeness, not scarcity. Women become an addition, not a regulator of your self-worth.
Signature Framework:
- 01
Examine Parental Relationships
Understand how your upbringing influences you.
- 02
Identify Your Needs & Values
Figure out what you want, need, and value.
- 03
Communication & Boundary Setting
Communicate your needs and boundaries effectively.
- 04
Stay in the Discomfort
Expose yourself to discomfort without nuking the relationship.
The Approval Exit Protocol
- 01
Stop auditioning for female approval and over-giving.
- 02
Break the cycle of people-pleasing and enmeshment.
- 03
Find the ability to hold boundaries without anger.
- 04
Become the chooser again. Date without losing your frame.
Real Clients. Real Results.
Real words from men who broke their approval addiction, built momentum, and experienced lasting change. View more.
“I completed a one-on-one coaching series and it was an overwhelmingly positive experience. He helped me uncover my challenges hiding under the surface — NO cookie cutter solutions.”
“This program is exceptional. If you want something different from your life and are committed to seeing change, this program will change your life! Every area of my life has improved.”
“As a life coach and mentor, Michael has been a true shepherd and guide. His ability to help me cut through the noise and realize I already have the answers and direction I need is a true gift.”
“I completed a one-on-one coaching series and it was an overwhelmingly positive experience. He helped me uncover my challenges hiding under the surface — NO cookie cutter solutions.”
“This program is exceptional. If you want something different from your life and are committed to seeing change, this program will change your life! Every area of my life has improved.”
“As a life coach and mentor, Michael has been a true shepherd and guide. His ability to help me cut through the noise and realize I already have the answers and direction I need is a true gift.”
“You have made a substantial impact on my life, not by telling me what I need to do, but by guiding me to find the answers myself. I highly recommend you and the service you provide.”
“Michael has that unique ability to help me see the unseen. The clarity of purpose and direction we created together was exactly what I was seeking.”
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